I’m for spanking up to a certain age… this coming from someone who was physically abused pretty badly. But there are many things I don’t like about spanking…
1. Parents who spank their children often. Spanking, to me, should be used as sparely as possible. When you spank your children, they learn not do do something to avoid punishment, and don’t learn the reasoning or morale to why it is wrong. When they are older, what’s to stop them from doing the same thing. On the rare instances where children are incapable of understanding, spanking can be used as a last resort (just my .02).
2. If I were to spank my children, I would definitely go about it in a certain way. There are way too many parents who beat their children. Since it’s difficult for some to draw the distinction, if I had to take a stand and not middle ground, I would be against spaking.
FOR
Its all about reasonable force..hard enough so the child knows they’ve done something wrong but not hard enough to do damage. It helps many children to learn the difference between right and wrong. Children know when its done out of love and discipline than if its done just to be done.
some of the kids i see today need that shit. to many ppl the spankings i got as a child would b called abuse but it was needed unfortunately, lol. u know how kids are. the fact is that they DON’T have full recognition of bad and good especially with all the shitty role models they have to look at (tv/movies/etc). ultimately it comes down to good parenting and tellin/showing ur kis the right thing from day one and never ever slip/
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November 21st, 2005 at 6:35 pm
I’m for spanking up to a certain age… this coming from someone who was physically abused pretty badly. But there are many things I don’t like about spanking…
1. Parents who spank their children often. Spanking, to me, should be used as sparely as possible. When you spank your children, they learn not do do something to avoid punishment, and don’t learn the reasoning or morale to why it is wrong. When they are older, what’s to stop them from doing the same thing. On the rare instances where children are incapable of understanding, spanking can be used as a last resort (just my .02).
2. If I were to spank my children, I would definitely go about it in a certain way. There are way too many parents who beat their children. Since it’s difficult for some to draw the distinction, if I had to take a stand and not middle ground, I would be against spaking.
November 21st, 2005 at 6:36 pm
spanking*
November 21st, 2005 at 8:08 pm
against it.
why?
I’ve experienced it up to a point where i was sent to a hospital.
I mean a tap on the hand or butt is as far as i will go.
November 21st, 2005 at 9:04 pm
hitting and abusing? no no. BUT discipline is good to an extent.
November 21st, 2005 at 9:06 pm
FOR
Its all about reasonable force..hard enough so the child knows they’ve done something wrong but not hard enough to do damage. It helps many children to learn the difference between right and wrong. Children know when its done out of love and discipline than if its done just to be done.
November 21st, 2005 at 9:44 pm
spankin
some of the kids i see today need that shit. to many ppl the spankings i got as a child would b called abuse but it was needed unfortunately, lol. u know how kids are. the fact is that they DON’T have full recognition of bad and good especially with all the shitty role models they have to look at (tv/movies/etc). ultimately it comes down to good parenting and tellin/showing ur kis the right thing from day one and never ever slip/
November 21st, 2005 at 11:19 pm
because your wife is your equal, your partner, she stands beside you, not behind you.
your children are property, until they reach majority, they are yours to grow and mold. you carry them.
November 22nd, 2005 at 3:08 am
for spanking only at an early age it’s sets the tone
November 22nd, 2005 at 4:48 am
depends on where you going wit dis cause some kids need discipline but now if your talking about them getting hit for no reason then its bad
November 22nd, 2005 at 6:57 am
I say hit them both
and the reason is, cause bastard kids need to learn to stfu
so you train them early. Wives usually know better
USUALLY
I say, beatings for all
November 22nd, 2005 at 5:01 pm
LOL and people are good for that
i wish my significant other would call that late
:-/
December 6th, 2005 at 4:02 pm
what? lol. it isn’t related to this post.